A multi-orgasmic experience is not the stuff of wild fantasies. Try any of these three ways for reaching the heights of pleasure.
For women, having more than one orgasm within the same session is not a miracle. In fact, you may have had multi-ohs without even realising it. Writes Lou Paget, in her book The Great Lover Playbook, there are three different kinds — 'compound singles' with large breaks between orgasms, 'sequential multiples' where they occur in the span of two to three minutes of each other and 'serial multiples' that are seconds apart.
In her book The Big O, taglined 'Orgasms: How to Have Them, Give Them, and Keep Them Coming', Paget reveals the secrets of women who have multi-ohs frequently.
1. Fly solo
Bring the DIY movement into the sexual realm by taking matters into your own hands! If you don't want to use sex toys, put the handy shower jet in the bathroom to good use by directing it down below.
2. Find your erogenous zones
The elusive G-Spot (about an inch or two inside a woman near the navel) isn't the only hot spot to push for a multi-orgasmic experience. You can generate pleasure by stimulating various outer body parts - the clitoris, nipples, anus and vagina. Touch more than one area at the same time for a blended orgasm.
3. Do micro-movements
When you're with your man, focus on having slower, controlled but consistent rocking movements and ask him to pleasure you on your hot spots. Soon, you'll be having sustained orgasms. These small movements will lead to the biggest gains.