Are you vying for the attention of your college hottie or that handsome suit-clad gentleman at work or the guy you often bump into at your favourite coffee shop? Have you already started imagining a rosy future with him but don't know to approach him.
We tell you how to get the man of your dreams in just 7 days.
Day 1: Exchanging glances
Making eye contact is the key here. The way you look at a person says a lot about your affiliation towards them. He'll get the hint that you're interested in him. But, do NOT stare or bump into him everywhere. You don't have to show serious stalking tendencies; else, he'll run away as far as he can.
Day 2: Introduce yourself
Today try initiating a little conversation with him. He would already have a faint idea that you're interested in him but he needs a confirmation before he would think of making the first move. Make a small remark when you see him around and then go ahead and introduce yourself. You really need to strike an interesting conversation with him that would make him remember you for who you are. Just remember, he could turn out to be the man of your dreams, and you wouldn't want to lose him only because you fret making the first move. Go ahead, work your charms on him.
Day 3: Sustain his interest
If you managed to strike a chord the previous day, he might in all likelihood approach you today. This would also give you an impression whether or not he's actually interested in you. Furthermore, if he tries a small talk with you without any initiation, be assured he is attracted to you. Now the tricky part, you have just caught his attention but you need to sustain his interest. Don't hesitate if he asks you to join him for lunch or coffee. Just go ahead and accept the offer. While actually having a conversation with him for the first time, ask leading questions and listen well to his responses. Remember, men like extrovert and knowledgeable women with whom they can have a decent conversation.
Day 4: Passive stalking
It is alright to send him a friend request on Facebook today. You never know by now he may already have sent you one. So get set to do some research on his likes, interests, his social circle etc. This would give you leads for next conversation, but please refrain from liking or commenting on any of his old posts or asking him directly about any of the posts he has made in the past. This is just to give you a brief idea about the person he is and nothing else.
Day 5: Send an event invite
Now, that you're well versed with his interests, find out what's happening in the city in line with his interests (something he can't say no to!) and then send a group message to a bunch of your friends including him asking if you can work a plan of going to the play/exhibition/concert together. At the event, just don't drool over or ignore him completely. But by the same token, it's important he know that there are other people in your life as well whom you are close to. However, pay him just enough attention to keep his interest in you going.
Day 6: Let him chase you
You have done enough work. Now, it's time to reap the fruits of your hardwork. Wait for his call or text. Do not send a text yourself and don't even reply promptly to his text. People want what they can't have - it's human psychology. Thus, remaining out of reach a little and making him realize that he's still got some work to do will only add to your advantage.
Day 7: When he actually asks you out...
The time has come when he'll ask you out officially on your first date. It's completely normal to have butterflies fluttering furiously in your stomach, but you need to take it easy for your own good.
Follow these tips for a lasting impression on him:
- Coco Chanel popularly said, "Dress shabbily and they remember the dress; dress impeccably and they remember the woman." Take her advice.
- Be confident, it is enamoring. There's nothing better than a women who knows what she wants and isn't afraid of voicing it.
- Spray a little perfume into your hair and flip your locks when you are sitting with him. There's this thing about the scent, you remember it even when the person is not around, so this way, you'll be in his memory until you meet again.
- Do not forget the golden rule of looking into his eyes and coyly linger there for a few seconds. At the end, give him one last look (a mental image) that he won't be able to get over in a long time.
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