Did you know you can make out your guy's sex personality by the way he moves in bed? It is believed that sexual adventure in bed can reveal a great deal about the sexual history of your man.
We give you some tips to make out which of the categories your guy falls into:
1. Missionary position:
It's the normal man on top and woman on bottom way of love making. But if your guy insists on simply following this sexual position, it means he is the non-experimental, staid type. He will stick to what he knows best and what he believes can give him maximum satisfaction. Such men mostly are very routine conscious and concerned majorly about their own sexual fulfillment.
Sexual decoder :
Sex expert Dr Vani Rao says, "Mostly Indian men prefer to indulge in this kind of sexual behaviour. It is also because of their lifestyle where they believe everything needs to be juggled around. For a certain kind of adventure and a sense of freedom, couples need to spend a lot of time together to find out their spots of pleasure or the common areas they derive pleasure from."
2. Doggy style:
Younger couples often like this position to add some adventure to their sex life. If your guy insists that he wants to do it this way, it means he believes in sexual experimentation. That is to say, that such men are mostly dead sure of what they want and what they need and think is the best possible way to gratify their lady in bed. They will not take to suggestions very easily and in fact would often come cross as overbearing and dominating.
Sexual decoder :
According to Rao, men who indulge a lot in this position have certain assumptions fixated in their minds. "It is very difficult to get them to experiment with other things as they get stuck in a certain groove. They begin to think their way is the only way to provide pleasure and there are no two ways about it. That is where the problem arises. The way to deal with them is to put your foot down and insist that you don't want to stick to a certain manner in bed and want to enjoy trying out various other positions as well."
3. Cowgirl position:
Just as the name goes this is the one where the girl is atop the guy. If your guy easily lets you ride him it indicates he can be easily influenced. Such guys are often not the dominating ones in bed. Instead they allow their women to take the lead and give her total charge to do as she wants to. Often, such guys are bad decision makers in their own lives too.
Sexual decoder:
According to marriage expert, Shailesh Gupta, "How one behaves in bed can a say a great deal about people dealing with their own individual lives. When a man allows his partner to take the lead in bed, it also means that he wants to give her/him the space they need. They are also encouraging and motivating. However on the downside, they often lack the motivation to take and execute decisions themselves."
4. Using sex toys:
A lot of couples use furniture or sex toys to heighten their pleasure zones. Men who like to use a lot of these things are often the ones who are flighty in a relationship and get easily bored. They seek pleasure and enjoyment and like a lot of adventure in their sex lives. Often such men find it difficult to stick to just one partner. They are the ones who may opt for multiple partners at the same time.
Sexual decoder :
Gupta explains, "Yes, often young couples tend to resort to such kinds of experimentation. Often, men who seek such pleasure are difficult to hold on to. They are unable to stay in one place or with one particular partner for a prolonged time frame. The excitement of trying out something new is what drives them from one person to the next. The encounter might not be that pleasurable, yet the excitement is in the discovery, not the actual act."
5. Kneeling position:
It is one of the positions where a couple is directly face to face with each other. If your guy is on of those who derive maximum pleasure in this particular sexual position, then he is the one who is concerned about your security and your sense of gratification. He wants to stay with you and will be careful about your needs and wants. Such men often prove to be the one who are totally involved in the relationship and concerned about their partner.
Sexual decoder:
Family councellor, Gaurav Kapoor suggests that not most men opt for this position. "It is a slightly difficult position and tough to keep up for a man. So if the guy insists on it, it shows that he loves his partner a lot and wants to give her complete satisfaction . They are the ones who take charge of every situation and make it a point to confirm that what they are doing is right."
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